Friday I mentioned that next to meditation the greatest gift I have discovered in my own spiritual journey is the ability to forgive. Also, I listed a few reasons, which I had heard in my practice, for refusing to forgive. If you have not had a chance to read my thoughts you can do so here: Â Forgive Whatever is Yours to Forgive
Todayâ€™s piece is going to be very short due to some health challenges which are keeping me from being able to give full attention to my writing. I do want you to contemplate some quotes from a couple of my favorite writers and then tomorrow, hopefully, we will tie this together.
Listen to what Pema Chodron says about why we are unwilling to consider forgiveness: â€œThe only reason we don’t open our hearts and minds to other people is that they trigger confusion in us that we don’t feel brave enough or sane enough to deal with.â€
Then ponder Paul Ferriniâ€™s insightful words on the power of forgiveness: “I can preach to you about the power of forgiveness, but you will never know how great that power is until you experience it. The willingness to forgive yourself and release others from your judgment is the greatest power you can know while you live in this embodiment. The only power that is greater is the power of love itself. And without the gesture of forgiveness, which removes the veil of fear, the power of love remains unharnessed.â€
Forgiveness takes courage. It relies on your willingness to overcome the fear which insisted that the original judgment was justified. Overcoming fear is never easy. It feels safe to hide behind the facade fear erects.
Finally, for today, I want you to consider a few more of Paul Ferriniâ€™s profound words from Love Without Conditions and then tomorrow I will hopefully share some of the techniques I have used which set me free of the painful resentment I used to harbor.
â€œTake heart, my friend. Every time you forgive, you dissolve a condition you have placed on your own capacity to love. Every time you forgive, love is awakened in you more deeply and your capacity to extend that love is increased. That is the nature of the journey. Be at peace with it and it cannot fail to bring you home.â€
I know those are pretty big promises, but I have seen this Truth manifest in my life and I look forward to sharing my techniques with you tomorrow or whenever I am healthy enough to do so.